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Thursday, March 29, 2012

20-year old Akiko’s remarkable sacrifice


Akiko is a Japanese teacher who works in a government school in Hatyai, Thailand. She is a music teacher by profession with a great talent for playing the piano. In 2007, I got an opportunity to meet her at a tea party organized by a group of Japanese teachers in Songkla province. While I was having a conversation with her over a cup of tea, she told me what inspired her to learn English when she was in Japan. Since she was a high school student, she wanted to work in a foreign country. In order to fulfill her ambition, since then she began to focus her attention to study conversational English. As was often the case with South East Asian countries, English was then not widely used in Japanese social context. Therefore, anyone wishing to study oral English was required to attend a formal educational institution where oral English was specifically taught.
       As indicated by Akiko, her family could not afford to send her to a private English language school. Therefore, Akiko had to wait patiently until the right time came. According to Japanese culture, when a girl becomes an adult, they hold a ceremony called “Coming of age” which is regarded as a significant milestone in a girl’s life. The parents want their daughters attired in Yukatas, a traditional Japanese formal dress despite their high price. When Akiko became an adult, her parents attempted to buy a Yukatas for Akiko. But Akiko knew that buying a Yukatas would cost their parents a big amount of money, exactly an amount similar to the tuition fee of an English course conducted in a private language school in her city. Even though she would love to wear a Yukatas as other girls of her age did, she resisted her temptation because she could understand the importance of learning an international language such as English would be more beneficial for her life in the future than a Yukatas. She decided not to buy the traditional dress instead she wanted her parents to spend that money for her English education. Her parents agreed to what she requested so she could attend the English language school and studied oral English to a considerably good level. When she was confident in using English proficiently, she left Japan. Now she lives and works in Thailand.
      The story of Akiko indicates that one should be prepared to sacrifice today for the sake of tomorrow.
                                                  Akiko's photo in 2007

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